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What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

10.06.2025 00:13

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

~KSR

Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.

But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.

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True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.

If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,

You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?

If my lovely sister sleeps with my boyfriend, what should I do about her?

Or because she doesn’t love you back?

Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?

Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.

Why aren't U.S. prisons more like Marine Corps boot camp, were every second of the day there are mandatory activities so that at night everyone is so tired they go to sleep until wakeup at 5:30 am? Would this make prisons safer for all?

Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.

I love getting tired of loving that someone though…

Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?

Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?

If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.

Overthinking is killing me day-by-day. What should I do?

Or because they’re happy without you.

Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.

Because you were just unlucky in love?

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You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.

Because you are in sorrow without them?

You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.

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Because only you LOVED?

Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?

Because it hurts that they are not with you?

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If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.

Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?

It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.

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